Gloryhole Experience and Questions
Hello All,
I have recently been starting setting up a GH at home and it seems to be the best experience sexually I've ever had. I love the quick in and out. A lot of straight guys come around married ones especially. I have a couple of questions, I really demand that these guys are clean and showered. I have had some guys come in and they smell so bad I can't do it I honestly want to vomit so I have to politely kick them out but I don't even know what to say to them, has anyone had to experience that?
I also deal with guys who are like watching porn and complete jerks and not being interactive at all I think it's a bit demeaning. Don't get me wrong most guys I've come across are amazing dudes I like to converse in between my water breaks. I also get tweakers who come and can't stay hard it's the worst.
One other thing I wanted to ask is there a good way other than water and lube to make your mouth really wet with spit? I have been struggling and sometimes I am sucking and dry out.
Welcome to the club! So a couple of suggestions. I make it very clear in my messages when arranging that hygiene is no doubt important to both of us, and that I only present freshly washed bits and trust they will do the same. Fortunately for me I have a nearby sink where I leave towel and soap and offer visitors the opportunity to go clean up before or after (maybe they are coming direct from work or been on the road for a while).
I have a couple of regulars that like to watch straight porn on their phone and it doesn't bother me at all , I've never thought of it as demeaning. We are all different, like different things and sexuality is complex. I suffer with ED so actually guys that don't want to reciprocate are a good match for me. Obviously this is advised to them 9that I cant be sucked), this means I get a high proportion of straight guys that just want a good BJ. I guess it's about being really clear up front what you are wanting and offering in your 'ad'. And if a guy doesn't get hard - I try and make him feel ok about it and tell him to come back another time. It could be just nerves or over excitement. We've all been there, it happens occasionally. I have never dried up but just guessing a swig of water is the easiest thing to do.
Hope that perspective helps.